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Start communicating solely by email. Make sure you have a record of all agreements made. Stop seeing him in person. Find a lawyer, make sure your ex knows he will be responsible for child support. Make a request in writing that he attends a parenting class ( you should too, they're actually amazing and so helpful). Mindfully separate the person you thought he was from the person he has shown himself to be. When he tries to play nice, remember it's a tactic. Do not soften.
As complicated as this is, the solution is pretty simple.
Explain to your mother that her ultimatum isn’t about you choosing which parent you love more. The ultimatum hasn’t been given to you. She created one for herself. She needs to choose if her hatred for your father is bigger than her love for you.
Idk. You'd be surprised what people go through before they realize a systemic problem. If she wants to offer the person she loves a chance, I think she should. But this should be it, no more chances.
Sweetheart, a good therapist can help you through this. You never deserved to be treated that way. You deserve a soft life full of love and a partner who contributes meaningfully to that. You are worthy.
You are so right! It seems like people have forgotten about the good old days before the internet when people use to wind up meeting their love interest who they had never done this long drawn out on-line and texting ritual; even today many still wind up meeting their future spouse this old fashioned way.
The question isn't about who I'm “choosing”. It's my gf easily, the thing that bothers me is that I have to choose at all and my gf won't admit that's what she wants. Seems unfair
It's not you, it's him. I grew up in an abusive and extremely poor household, but never have I had to turn to drugs or alcohol or gotten hostile easily. It's definitely a behavioral problem that he needs to work on. It sounds like he disregards your advice and concerns because “you didn't have it as very hot as him.” Yeah, growing up poor sucks and it's difficult. But, he also has to learn how to work smarter, not harder. He's an adult, and he needs to learn how to make rational choices.
It is probably for the best. If you have been a couple for 5 years but haven't gotten married, it sounds like both of you have had reservations about the relationship for a while.
Start communicating solely by email. Make sure you have a record of all agreements made. Stop seeing him in person. Find a lawyer, make sure your ex knows he will be responsible for child support. Make a request in writing that he attends a parenting class ( you should too, they're actually amazing and so helpful). Mindfully separate the person you thought he was from the person he has shown himself to be. When he tries to play nice, remember it's a tactic. Do not soften.
As complicated as this is, the solution is pretty simple.
Explain to your mother that her ultimatum isn’t about you choosing which parent you love more. The ultimatum hasn’t been given to you. She created one for herself. She needs to choose if her hatred for your father is bigger than her love for you.
Grow up.
Idk. You'd be surprised what people go through before they realize a systemic problem. If she wants to offer the person she loves a chance, I think she should. But this should be it, no more chances.
Sweetheart, a good therapist can help you through this. You never deserved to be treated that way. You deserve a soft life full of love and a partner who contributes meaningfully to that. You are worthy.
You are so right! It seems like people have forgotten about the good old days before the internet when people use to wind up meeting their love interest who they had never done this long drawn out on-line and texting ritual; even today many still wind up meeting their future spouse this old fashioned way.
Fucked up, OP
The question isn't about who I'm “choosing”. It's my gf easily, the thing that bothers me is that I have to choose at all and my gf won't admit that's what she wants. Seems unfair
It's not you, it's him. I grew up in an abusive and extremely poor household, but never have I had to turn to drugs or alcohol or gotten hostile easily. It's definitely a behavioral problem that he needs to work on. It sounds like he disregards your advice and concerns because “you didn't have it as very hot as him.” Yeah, growing up poor sucks and it's difficult. But, he also has to learn how to work smarter, not harder. He's an adult, and he needs to learn how to make rational choices.
What's the parents gotta do with it?
It is probably for the best. If you have been a couple for 5 years but haven't gotten married, it sounds like both of you have had reservations about the relationship for a while.