No because I am told that I am not in the right to 'diagnose' my partner again and that my partner was already treated years ago so all is 'solved'. But I sometimes think its not.
You weren’t disrespectful because he hasn’t done anything to earn your respect.
How is anything that he did respectful to you?
He left you alone and went to a completely different place than he said he was going too and didn’t tell you,
He then left that place and went home and didn’t tell you.
He gave you a curfew
He chastised you for staying out with your friends to the point where you’re questioning how to fix this
He yelled at you and then gave you the silent treatment for not doing what he told you to do
If your best friend told you this same story, what advice would you give her? This guy doesn’t respect you yet demands that you respect him. Find another boyfriend.
Thanks for your reply, I didn't feel those things were okay to say but the validation that it's not makes me feel better. It baffles me why she thought it was ok and also thought it was just expressing her feelings.
My bf wants me to go NC but the idea of it is a little scary to me. She and a small group of others are the only family I have since my dad won't speak with me because I talk to my mom. I thought I would try the low contact and see if that helps at all.
Exactly, there's no point in that. If he isn't enthusiastic about it then it's not really what you want.
It's possible to love someone deeply and not be a good match.
You should believe her.
She's not ready for a relationship.
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You might get your ass beat, just saying.
This gives me an idea, thank you for your help !
No because I am told that I am not in the right to 'diagnose' my partner again and that my partner was already treated years ago so all is 'solved'. But I sometimes think its not.
You weren’t disrespectful because he hasn’t done anything to earn your respect.
How is anything that he did respectful to you?
He left you alone and went to a completely different place than he said he was going too and didn’t tell you,
He then left that place and went home and didn’t tell you.
He gave you a curfew
He chastised you for staying out with your friends to the point where you’re questioning how to fix this
He yelled at you and then gave you the silent treatment for not doing what he told you to do
If your best friend told you this same story, what advice would you give her? This guy doesn’t respect you yet demands that you respect him. Find another boyfriend.
As a grill cook this is fuckin spot on
Thanks for your reply, I didn't feel those things were okay to say but the validation that it's not makes me feel better. It baffles me why she thought it was ok and also thought it was just expressing her feelings.
My bf wants me to go NC but the idea of it is a little scary to me. She and a small group of others are the only family I have since my dad won't speak with me because I talk to my mom. I thought I would try the low contact and see if that helps at all.