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I’ve been through the same too (minus the blackmail from the women he cheated with) My college sweetheart, we were best friends, he prided himself on communication etc etc…
I took him back after the first one. And the second one. The third time … I realised I wasn’t the person I used to be, and he was never the person he pretended to be.
I regret that seven years of my 20’s was over with nothing at all to show for it. I’m nearly 40 and now catching up to where I would have been in my life, I feel. But I don’t get to be 20 again.
Definitely red flags all around, but it's hard not to be curious how far she would take it. It's very likely just a thirst trap.
I would talk to him and voice your issue in a respectful manner.
If you don’t, you’ll continue to resent him and he’ll have no idea why.
It’s a double edged sword but sometimes you need the willpower to do something many won’t to have a chance at something great again.
If you accept her back you validate her actions. You essentialy would tell her she did the right thing, cause she could have sex and whatever with other people without concern for you cause she can have you back any time she wants.
Part of growing up is learning to look after yourself.
She’s not good for you. She’s a blatant user who doesn’t give a shit about you.
You have no obligation to be nice to her after how she’s treated you.
Just block her. That doesn’t make you the bad guy, it makes you a normal human being who’s fed up with being used and treated with no respect.
Unfortunately that's not how it works. The discovery of an affair, even just an emotional or attempted one, is what initiates the harm. Even if the actual event happened or concluded years ago.
My sister in law is a marriage therapist and took a bunch of courses on surviving infidelity. She said this is one of the hardest situations. Oftentimes the cheater has spent the intervening years trying to make up for the mistake and sometimes even feels like they have been a better partner because of it. Meanwhile their partner is only just now experiencing the betrayal and directing the anger and hate towards them as if it just happened.
Get away from her
First of all, who pays the mortgage? If it's you, you need to insist on being added to the deed or it's a straight up D-I-V-O-R-C-E. She is controlling as hell and you're getting next to no benefits from this marriage.
The main reason childhood relationships don't tend to last forever is because it's just up to chance whether both partners' life goals end up to be in sync once they're adults. It's unlikely your boyfriend really has much of a clue what city life is like. But if he's mentally ill and his family has created a safe environment that he can handle it would be a bad idea for him to leave that. In the long run it's probably better that he contend with a breakup than to accompany you to the city then have a complete meltdown (and have to return home anyway). So explain to him that you care deeply about him but that you can't live! a happy life without ever having experienced anything outside of your home town. If he's unable to adjust to this enlist his family to help with the process. He may need to move in with family for a while if he can't afford the apartment. It seems his family is well aware of his special needs and have already worked to craft a life for him. So they can take on this challenge too.
It's hot watching the person you love disintegrate.
Yes, please go to a doctor, OP! Hearing damage is no joke and it often is permanent. I don’t want to be alarmist, but what he did is really serious and definitely causes hearing loss. “You’ll be fine,” is an absurd statement to make after what he did.
Get yourself checked out first before you worry about him, but yes, I think you should get him to leave. That was really, really, violent, and caused permanent injury.
He wrote the letter to her. Why wouldn't they just give it to her?
you can literally approach almost any guy, any way you want (appropriately) as long as they aren't mid-set.
I'm more than sure that as long as you come up with the topic of conversation, any dude at the gym is willing to respond and talk to you.
Is he paying for it???
bro save yourself some hassle and heart break
You mean like your advice that could very well have led to someone breaking up with their SO of 7 years?
She pressed and pressed to get you to open up, then reacted by leaving the house to stay with her sister?
Then she doesn't call to say goodnight to your child because she was too busy hanging out with the coworker that you had just expressed a concern about?
Tell me what's wrong. You and this male coworker's closeness is bothering me. Wow. So you think I'm cheating? I'm staying at my sister's house. Hey, I know you're staying at your sister's place but you didn't call to say goodnight like you usually do. Oh, yeah. About that, I was out with that coworker that gives you a bad feeling…
Like. What???
Look, even if she's not cheating… she's disrespecting your boundaries. When you tell your spouse that a third-party is making you feel uncomfortable, it is their duty to comfort and assure you that there is nothing going on. That doesn't always mean cutting the person off cold turkey, but it damn sure doesn't mean spending quality time with the problem person during a period of physical separation. That is unacceptable.
You both sound like you are not ready when it comes to a committed relationship, and just using the “open relationship” as an excuse to explore while being too afraid of being single, and I believe you both have a lot of growth to do. Since you two seem to have several relationship issues for a long time. I wonder why there is still a relationship, and not just making it “friend with benefit-relation” at this point.
Your true person is out there though, And they are waiting for you to find them. So hold head high so you can see them when you stumple across them. ??
Yeah but if you feel shitty about sex then thatsa red flag. That's our body communicating something. Aside for that there's Ăntimacy, which is lacking. Like Ăntimacy shouldnt just be after. It should be during