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He knows her better than he knows you so it is very possible that he would tell her. If you are afraid of your mom's reaction and live at home, I would totally understand if you didn't say anything. I would hope that he runs the moment he realizes the truth.
I'm not an expert on abuse though so I think it might be beneficial to reach out to someone trained in this field, rather than asking a general reddit question. Could you call a domestic violence hotline or talk with a social worker? I've called a DV hotline for advise before for a situation that didn't directly involve me. Or there may be a more specific subreddit for your situation.
The whole point of telling him is so he avoids being harmed but I'm afraid you would be putting yourself in harms way instead.
Yeah take relationship advice from ugly single redditors. Go find something else to do
Im sorry this happened to you but honestly you are 26 and you need to move on with your life.
Lice is full of injustice and its easy to get so caught up in the bitterness of that. Why did they get a great life when they left mine in tatters? Etc.
But the fact is only you can make you happy. Not them. Not someone else. Thsy arent sitting around wondering what you're doing. Stop dking that with them. Youre still young. Go and do things. Get hobbies. Improve your life. Focus on things or adventures or a career or SOMETHING that eill make your life so full you sont even care that he did what he did. If anythi g youll thank him for it cahse your lice was maxe so awesome because they left and gave you the drive to make it awesome.
Stop sitfing and pining. At the end of the day, if he could jump ship so easy – there is nothing saying he wont do it again. Why pine over a piece of shit garbage human?
Go on the holiday, go travelling, start the hobby you always wanted to but made excuses not to, work towards a better career or just plain find someone else. But whstever it is, find something for you. Block everything about him and his mrs from your life and fill it with fun, laughter snd new things to enjoy. The only person making you miserable right now is you. Stop getting in your own way
I like my old colleague's take on it: “Don't get laid where you get paid.”
You need to be honest and realistic. Also prepare yourself for being patient as it sounds like you're about 5 steps ahead of him as you're crazy about him. He's not where you are so try and remember that.
You're gonna drive yourself crazy if you don't tell him properly how you really feel, just mentally prepare yourself for the worst or for giving him time to think about things.
Life is short so shoot your shot. Remember, be logical and don't go off fluffy feelings.
I love how you try to pass off as if you didn’t really do anything bad
Yeah sure she is the cheater but you are just as bad as she is
Don’t get me wrong, he deserves to know
But you just don’t want to deal with her at work when you break up with her, don’t act like this is for him
Your just as much of an asshole as her, I can’t tell you what the fallout will be but man I hope it’s one that really knocks you on your ass
I'm definitely not with her because I didn't find anyone better. I like her physically. I like how gentle she is and sometimes naive. I was feeling protective of her. I was raised in a well functioning and well respected family. I go above and beyond for people I care. That's the reason I wasn't even trying to be in a relationship until I sorted some of parents financial troubles. I was caring for her just like I do with my immediate family offering physical, mental and financial help.
I was never intending to do casual dating as my brain doesn't function like that. When I talk about all this it feels like I'm the problem being an idealist.I'm
I do have people that would be interested in me. I cut ties pretty quick as I don't wanna disappoint people.I'm pretty straight forward and don't know or don't like to play games with peoples feelings. When I don't see it real I honestly say that move pretty quick. Even people I met on dating apps, I end pretty quick. It's already very hot to meet females as a man on dating apps. I was mentally prepared to be single if don't find a person I like.
I'm an all or nothing guy. I feel like me going all in and I having high expectations from my partner in this society is also a problem. I struggle with that and I acknowledge it is me who operates like that prioritizing others I care for over me. I already talked to my self not to expect that, all of the above is beyond how much I care for her. All I was asking is if it is when things get real is it how a reasonable person function
that's quite a childish thing to say – Jacob didn't 'do him wrong' – Jacob just exists, improved his sports ability and your boyfriend thought he was entitled to that award. That's not 'doing him wrong'
Umm so you love your common law wife but told another woman who is married that if you weren’t in relationships you would deffo be up for her??? That is how you love your wife is it? You need to tell her what happened because one of you will give it away soon anyway by continuing to act awkwardly. I feel sorry for your wife that she is so disposable to you after a few drinks. Whilst you say you are sorry and should have shut it down it took you a while to do so and frankly what you said was awful for your wife. Good luck with the conversation. And make sure you tell her everything (which we know you won’t do…) so she can make a full informed decision about what to do.
Ma'am leave him alone and get therapy. Focus on yourself because you doesn't sound like you like or love you. You need that to be in a HEALTHY relationship.
If you really like her and think it's going somewhere, go for something small but meaningful, like a book or some music that feels relevant. Otherwise perhaps something less personal, like dinner and flowers.
A human who doesn’t like pets? ???
… surgery at 18 mixed with slight racism makes me think the mom is Asian and the daughter wanted “white people eyes”
I think OP would have been fine in Barcelona, but OP's bf is insufferable. A kind and decent partner would have said: “We don't need to go back, but if you want to we can.”
instead:
“He ended the relationship over it and we only worked things out because I accepted the blame for it all, only then did he later say we both did wrong.”
And if people go places in a a pair, they should leave as a pair, unless it's clear that both parties are safe, this is true of bars, restaurants etc. As a lone person, there are places one doesn't go, that are safer with a partner. This is true of men too.
Ah hell nah man stay away from that manipulative bitch
But he didn't say he would be verbally abusive toward her for it
Suing as it would be an illegal thing also in my country. But we don’t know the details and it’s a thing between you and him. If you use it as kink play as a couple and you both have a safeword that you didn’t use the whole thing gets debatable for example. Or if it’s a thing between you and him that you both cuff the other casually for a day etc. but for most of us reading this and not knowing more it is not really understandable behaviour and it sounds frightening.
Also covid restrictions, lockdowns, rulings etc. had their impact on people’s minds, so who knows.
Going to a therapist doesn’t mean someone is pathologically ill. A therapist could help you to reflect and deal with this on a level that friends or reddit can’t. Im not saying you need one or that something is wrong with you, i’m just trying to show what benefits it could have. Honestly, it would also be benefical for your partner to understand why he acted this way if he would visit a therapist.
My daughter is 41 & still does this with her 23 & 19 year old siblings. Seriously- when is she going to shut up. ?
Yesss my son Vincentchezo had been playing harmonica since he was 11months old
my SO used to do this and in the beginning I would fall for it. Then I started to tell him not to pull that bullshit with me, he would rant on, I would say things that I knew he would say before he said them. Probably not the most mature way to deal with things, but sometimes talking things out doesn't work.
He no longer does this.
Depends on if they are looking for a serious relationship. It's a talk that eventually should happen. His girlfriend is lucky he is a good man. There have been too many stories about trans women being beaten or killed for not disclosing their transition before getting physical.
Stop doing his laundry. Stop cooking for him. Stop cleaning for him.
Do your laundry, make yourself a sandwich, don't clean after him and only clean after yourself. See how far the mess and dirt goes and how long until he has no clean clothes.
You should communicate with her that this makes you uncomfortable and or how you feel. Go from there.
I think you’re being naive if you really think you can stay completely uninvolved with your fiance’s new baby. At the very least, she will resent you for it.
Possibly the best Futurama ep ever lol
You can hire a private investigator. If you’re in a no-fault state and proving infidelity won’t help your case you can skip the drama and go right to the lawyer and serve her.
I think OP has noticed a lot of things that are important. So she’s got good instincts. I think a therapist would help her get better at resisting manipulative behavior.
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This is a coworker of my husband whom I've always felt uncomfortable around. When I first met her she was asking me details about my husband and our marriage and also when I'm with my husband at a work event she makes it a point to only socialize with him and sit next to him while I'm there and completely ignores my presence. I've brought this out to my husband before and yesterday we went to a work event and she was doing the same thing with my husband and started telling my husband how her husband (she's recently married) doesn't help her out at-home at all and was asking him if he helps me out. My husband made it a point to shut her out and show how much he cares about me. She then asked him why he's so overprotective of me. Is there something wrong with this girl or is it just me?
Go for it! I’m sure she doesn’t want to go alone. I don’t think it’s a bad idea to go. You support your friend and get to go on a holiday.