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That's part of the plan, yeah. We have discussed this and it was actually her who offered to help me with this. So I'm also kinda feeling like I can't criticize her for anything because it would be ungrateful… ?
You'd have to know the various tenant laws in the place where this is happening. In some jurisdictions simply living in a place for a period of time conveys certain rights. In others it wouldn't be a problem to move someone in with you then just ask them to leave. You might need to draft up a rental contract with this person making it clear that they're a tenant (meaning they can be evicted) and that any money they pay toward the mortgage is rent rather than a stake in the property. Probably worth talking to a lawyer about this.
Not communicating for a few days is not a healthy way to handle conflict. Neither is reaching level 10 in anger. Go to marriage counseling so both of you can learn communication skills.
Let me be clear, something horrible happened to you, also you made stupid decision after stupid decision and now You try to spin the blame on your bf??? What…. The….. Fuck.
The guy trust You, and your first line of thinking is “he set this up because he knows him” again…. WTF.
If You think your bf would set You up to being R**ED then You should just leave the guy, srsly.
What the actual fuck. Your husband is disgusting. Tell him to sort his shit out (literally!) and plunge it away! Leaving a nugget for others to find and deal with is just wrong
What’s the difference between this person and a cis women other than that their body was once different? Do you have to disclose vulva surgeries now? LEEP procedures? Pap smears?
You know what is the right thing to do. Let them go. You have created enough trauma for the rest of their lives. They are afraid of you and they have nightmares of you. Let them alone, let then heal. Work on yourself. If they are ever in a good state of mind they are going to try with you but until then let them alone.
If it is – dump his ass. He made a move on your 19 yo sister, in your house, whom he knew since she was a child. It is creepy af. If it is true – I would not be able to get past it.
However it is really strange that she told it to you only now. Why? It would make sense to tell you right away, or after the move, or after she learned you got engaged.
In any case, I would put off the wedding. You are fighting bad and questioned your relationship even not knowing it. Wether he did it or not, it doesn't look like you are sure you want to marry him.
I don't know what kind of childhood you have had, but it seems like you've been conditionned to believe that chaos is normal. It is not.
You've said that you've been on your own since you were 16. That's tough. Aren't you tired man? Tired of getting fucked around by the people that should have your back and be supportive (your family) ?
If so, then why are you bringing ANOTHER unsupportive, disrespectful person into your life? You are born into your family so you can't chose them. But you sure a hell can choose your friends and your partner.
You have enough assholes in your life and shit to deal with at your young age. Do not let this woman back into your life.
She punched you, she is irresponsible, she has no respect for her friends or her boyfriend. You don't need someone like that when you yourself are starting out in life. This much drama for a relationship that is not even 1 year old is… Not fucking worth it my dude.
7 years ago I was an out of control unmedicated bi polar. I met my current boyfriend in the poly lifestyle. Now I have been on meds for a while and honestly don't want to be in the lifestyle anymore. My Dr said that the severity of my manic episodes is what caused that risk taking behavior and now that I don't have the episodes anymore is why I'm enjoying a calmer life
This is awful. My ex was like that and even while giving it up to his every demand, he still cheated. Sexual manipulation is what it is. Guilting you into doing any sexual favor because if you don’t, they play into your emotional fear of being cheated on. They still end up cheating. Several times. My ex legit told me that getting head from another woman isn’t cheating because there’s no penetration. I responded, “penetrated her face so yea it’s definitely cheating you moron”. Later down the road he admitted it was more than just head. Garbage men don’t deserve beautiful women.
The whole story seems really weird. OOP has no female she’s close to at 28? The other two ladies don’t really know her but agreed to do a bachelorette party? Their men pushed it on them to do it or they wanted to then flaked? There’s a lot missing in this tale.
That's part of the plan, yeah. We have discussed this and it was actually her who offered to help me with this. So I'm also kinda feeling like I can't criticize her for anything because it would be ungrateful… ?
You'd have to know the various tenant laws in the place where this is happening. In some jurisdictions simply living in a place for a period of time conveys certain rights. In others it wouldn't be a problem to move someone in with you then just ask them to leave. You might need to draft up a rental contract with this person making it clear that they're a tenant (meaning they can be evicted) and that any money they pay toward the mortgage is rent rather than a stake in the property. Probably worth talking to a lawyer about this.
Not communicating for a few days is not a healthy way to handle conflict. Neither is reaching level 10 in anger. Go to marriage counseling so both of you can learn communication skills.
Break up with her she doesn't respect you and she will do it again if you take her back.
I don’t know if he set me up cause he knows him.
Let me be clear, something horrible happened to you, also you made stupid decision after stupid decision and now You try to spin the blame on your bf??? What…. The….. Fuck.
The guy trust You, and your first line of thinking is “he set this up because he knows him” again…. WTF.
If You think your bf would set You up to being R**ED then You should just leave the guy, srsly.
What the actual fuck. Your husband is disgusting. Tell him to sort his shit out (literally!) and plunge it away! Leaving a nugget for others to find and deal with is just wrong
This isn’t equivalent to an STD. How would it be?
What’s the difference between this person and a cis women other than that their body was once different? Do you have to disclose vulva surgeries now? LEEP procedures? Pap smears?
You know what is the right thing to do. Let them go. You have created enough trauma for the rest of their lives. They are afraid of you and they have nightmares of you. Let them alone, let then heal. Work on yourself. If they are ever in a good state of mind they are going to try with you but until then let them alone.
Make sure it is true. Did he admit it?
If it is – dump his ass. He made a move on your 19 yo sister, in your house, whom he knew since she was a child. It is creepy af. If it is true – I would not be able to get past it.
However it is really strange that she told it to you only now. Why? It would make sense to tell you right away, or after the move, or after she learned you got engaged.
In any case, I would put off the wedding. You are fighting bad and questioned your relationship even not knowing it. Wether he did it or not, it doesn't look like you are sure you want to marry him.
You say “hey babe that was nude let me join in next time”
No, this is an update not an advice seeking post. OP already acted on the advices he received on his previous post
I don't know what kind of childhood you have had, but it seems like you've been conditionned to believe that chaos is normal. It is not.
You've said that you've been on your own since you were 16. That's tough. Aren't you tired man? Tired of getting fucked around by the people that should have your back and be supportive (your family) ?
If so, then why are you bringing ANOTHER unsupportive, disrespectful person into your life? You are born into your family so you can't chose them. But you sure a hell can choose your friends and your partner.
You have enough assholes in your life and shit to deal with at your young age. Do not let this woman back into your life.
She punched you, she is irresponsible, she has no respect for her friends or her boyfriend. You don't need someone like that when you yourself are starting out in life. This much drama for a relationship that is not even 1 year old is… Not fucking worth it my dude.
7 years ago I was an out of control unmedicated bi polar. I met my current boyfriend in the poly lifestyle. Now I have been on meds for a while and honestly don't want to be in the lifestyle anymore. My Dr said that the severity of my manic episodes is what caused that risk taking behavior and now that I don't have the episodes anymore is why I'm enjoying a calmer life
This is awful. My ex was like that and even while giving it up to his every demand, he still cheated. Sexual manipulation is what it is. Guilting you into doing any sexual favor because if you don’t, they play into your emotional fear of being cheated on. They still end up cheating. Several times. My ex legit told me that getting head from another woman isn’t cheating because there’s no penetration. I responded, “penetrated her face so yea it’s definitely cheating you moron”. Later down the road he admitted it was more than just head. Garbage men don’t deserve beautiful women.
The whole story seems really weird. OOP has no female she’s close to at 28? The other two ladies don’t really know her but agreed to do a bachelorette party? Their men pushed it on them to do it or they wanted to then flaked? There’s a lot missing in this tale.