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Don't do it. You both clearly aren't comfortable, I haven't read through all the comments but genuinely .. every couple that Ive known, that has brought someone into their bedroom to try and “have a one time experience” … Ended in the couple splitting up.
I've been the 3rd invited into a couples bedroom. Everyone was on board that it was a one time thing, just fulfilling a fantasy for them BOTH. Secretly, the woman in the relationship held resentment against me. She didn't like that her husband focused attention on me at all. She got wildly jealous afterwards, they had to go to couples counseling, she couldn't get over it. They were together 6 years and ended up splitting up over it. Absolutely horrible.
If you have doubts, don't go for it. It's not worth it. Tell him you guys can watch porn together and fantasize that one of the girls in the video is in the room with you. That's enough to make ME uncomfortable, but it might be enough to make him happy and you just slightly out of your own comfortable zone. Especially since he is NOT ok with M/M/F then that shows … It doesn't belong in your bedroom.
Be open and honest with your feelings because covering them up doesn't do anyone any good. Honest communication is literally all a relationship needs to succeed. If he has a fantasy that's fine that he wants it but it does NOT MEAN that you are obligated to fulfill it.
Tl;Dr: don't do it. Be honest with your bf.
If he says he'll leave if you don't or he'll be tempted to cheat if he doesn't get a new girl in the bedroom, dump him anyway. Good luck @op
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Uh no, you didn't do anything wrong; SHE did. She wasn't joking. She was bullying you. She kept harassing you about your marriage and insulting you. She insulted your husband too. Your friends are wrong to defend her bad behavior. If you apologize, she'll do the same thing all over again. And what if you have kids and she insults you, your husband, and your children in front of them? Don't apologize. This is not how friends should treat each other.
Cancel the marriage and have a party for your family and friends if you cannot get back your money. Divorce is way harder than cancelling getting married.
It's not “cheating” per se, but it is a gross behavior that no serious person would be involved in. Whether to end things over this depends on whether you're looking for a responsible life partner or just a silly sex toy. She's not fit to be the former (at least not yet) but she's probably perfect to be the latter.
Don't do it. You both clearly aren't comfortable, I haven't read through all the comments but genuinely .. every couple that Ive known, that has brought someone into their bedroom to try and “have a one time experience” … Ended in the couple splitting up.
I've been the 3rd invited into a couples bedroom. Everyone was on board that it was a one time thing, just fulfilling a fantasy for them BOTH. Secretly, the woman in the relationship held resentment against me. She didn't like that her husband focused attention on me at all. She got wildly jealous afterwards, they had to go to couples counseling, she couldn't get over it. They were together 6 years and ended up splitting up over it. Absolutely horrible.
If you have doubts, don't go for it. It's not worth it. Tell him you guys can watch porn together and fantasize that one of the girls in the video is in the room with you. That's enough to make ME uncomfortable, but it might be enough to make him happy and you just slightly out of your own comfortable zone. Especially since he is NOT ok with M/M/F then that shows … It doesn't belong in your bedroom.
Be open and honest with your feelings because covering them up doesn't do anyone any good. Honest communication is literally all a relationship needs to succeed. If he has a fantasy that's fine that he wants it but it does NOT MEAN that you are obligated to fulfill it.
Tl;Dr: don't do it. Be honest with your bf.
If he says he'll leave if you don't or he'll be tempted to cheat if he doesn't get a new girl in the bedroom, dump him anyway. Good luck @op
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girl run
you already pointed out how horrible a relationship with this guy is like
surely being alone is better than dating a racist, sexist, disagreeable and controlling bigot?
how special can he be
Uh no, you didn't do anything wrong; SHE did. She wasn't joking. She was bullying you. She kept harassing you about your marriage and insulting you. She insulted your husband too. Your friends are wrong to defend her bad behavior. If you apologize, she'll do the same thing all over again. And what if you have kids and she insults you, your husband, and your children in front of them? Don't apologize. This is not how friends should treat each other.
She told him because there is more to the story and she's giving herself plausible deniability if the truth comes out.
Cancel the marriage and have a party for your family and friends if you cannot get back your money. Divorce is way harder than cancelling getting married.
Hmm.. what do you mean?
It's not “cheating” per se, but it is a gross behavior that no serious person would be involved in. Whether to end things over this depends on whether you're looking for a responsible life partner or just a silly sex toy. She's not fit to be the former (at least not yet) but she's probably perfect to be the latter.