You can’t, you’re her partner not her parent and she’s an adult who can choose to do what she pleases, if smoking is a “red flag” for you then you need to decide wether you can learn to live with this or if it’s a dealbreaker, only you know the answer to that.
My advice is NOT to have another baby unless you and your wife first get some very intense therapy. Her “punishing” you by withholding sex because you won't “give her a baby” is just really not a very good sign.
I think you should tell her that you are willing to consider having another child AFTER you have gone through intensive marriage counseling and individual therapy. Don't promise anything.
If she doesn't hide her phone and this was innocent, why did she hide you from this encounter and why did she get mad? If it wasn't anything else but friends exchanging SM, she wouldn't have gotten mad and wouldn't have hid you from the conversation. I would really consider if this relationship is really worth having since you won't be able to trust her.
Wow. Absolutely, perfectly said. OP mentions his heart breaking without any regard to how his wife must feel. I get that OP feels bad; OP SHOULD feel bad. But OP ain’t asking for advice here, he’s looking for empathy, and he’s not going to get it.
Oh boy. The bf has to go.
from now on: sex only with open eyes!
You can’t, you’re her partner not her parent and she’s an adult who can choose to do what she pleases, if smoking is a “red flag” for you then you need to decide wether you can learn to live with this or if it’s a dealbreaker, only you know the answer to that.
My advice is NOT to have another baby unless you and your wife first get some very intense therapy. Her “punishing” you by withholding sex because you won't “give her a baby” is just really not a very good sign.
I think you should tell her that you are willing to consider having another child AFTER you have gone through intensive marriage counseling and individual therapy. Don't promise anything.
If she doesn't hide her phone and this was innocent, why did she hide you from this encounter and why did she get mad? If it wasn't anything else but friends exchanging SM, she wouldn't have gotten mad and wouldn't have hid you from the conversation. I would really consider if this relationship is really worth having since you won't be able to trust her.
Remember, she said he is missing a few teeth.
“Typical female who is never happy”
Please work on your internalized misogyny. And get your dog away from its abuser.
Wow. Absolutely, perfectly said. OP mentions his heart breaking without any regard to how his wife must feel. I get that OP feels bad; OP SHOULD feel bad. But OP ain’t asking for advice here, he’s looking for empathy, and he’s not going to get it.
Or, it's totally fake.