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If you end up telling her, “Yeah i wanted to break up for a while etc” (if she asks) then she will know you went w her to this trip w different thoughts than she did. You say things are getting better and she will see this trip as a step in the right direction until you break up w her. I would tell her asap. It does suck w the timing but its better than you trudging along or her thinking you went w her out of pity.
What you describe in your posts and comments is coercive control and emotional abuse. The fact that you have forced yourself to have sex with him without actually wanting to, is sex without consent. His reaction when he is not getting it, is another huge red flag.
To answer your question, no, this is not normal behaviour.
So what? You had a fling. So what? That had nothing to do with him or his family.
Good for you OP on the update. You're still young but I'm glad you made the mature step to cut your losses to someone who, at the very best, does not respect your relationship boundaries. It may feel like a tough slog for a few weeks. But as long as you focus on self-improvement, you'll look back at this moment as proof of your self respect. Good luck! I used the memory of my cheating GF to routinely hit the gym!
Would you be able to exercise instead? My brother and husband both ramp up the physical activity when going through really tough emotional times.
I'm sorry this happened to you. You'll get through it.
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Her idea, to care for you, because she loves you.
Taking advantage of someones love for you for free caretaking and booting them when you feel better is messed up.
Do you like jail? Because this is how you end up in jail.
Your wife hates your kid, that ALONE should be a deal breaker she spit on you You threatened to assault her she tried to get you arrested at least once
If you stay with her you are going to go to jail. If you don't change your behavior in relationships you're going to end up in jail eventually. You are absolutely insane and incredibly stupid if you do not get a divorce ASAP. You should also get therapy because your idea of tolerable behavior is seriously going to land you in hard water in your life.
OP he's not coming back. Just put a lock of his hair in a zippy bag and move on.
Seriously though you're incompatible. You deserve better than a partner who looks down on you.
Dude. You didn't dodge a bullet; you dodged a nuke. You're the metaphorical equivalent of the guy who missed his flight into Nagasaki on Aug. 5, 1945.
You could have wasted years trying to dig her out of the rabbit hole. Also, if it's any consolation, there's an excellent chance that “crazy in the bed” was an act she does “for him” and would have faded fast if she felt secure.
Birth control is known to worsen peoples moods and anxiety. I have friends in school that are learning about mental health and one of the first things they ask people who have bad anxiety, is if they’re on birth control. There’s a ton of people who say their mood is better off the pill. Also it’s well known birth control causes weight gain from water retention. I’m worried what my body would like like without it.
A good relationship should be a lot of things, and fun is one of them. You should be excited to see/hang out with your partner and enjoy the time you spend with them. Do you have fun spending time with your friends? You should feel that same (or more ideally) enjoyment when you’re with your partner.
Did you ask her why it was more okay to hurt your feelings rather than her bfs?