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You two are fundamentally incompatible and need to look for other people to be with. I am 26, and have a pretty diverse group of friends. A lot of them feel comfortable posting revealing photos (both guys and girls), and a lot of them do not. Conflict only arises when one person dates someone that doesn't have the same philosophy on the physical and then they start looking at themselves as being “right” and the other person as being “wrong”. When in reality, no one is right or wrong, it's just really different philosophies that both work for people with different lifestyles.
You give the example of the athletics coach being concerned. But I have seen this transition again and again of college athlete, becoming social media influencer, then becoming personal trainer. My cousin has done this and I remember our family being really freaked out by the pictures because we are a very conservative Christian immigrant family, but now everyone celebrates him because he is successful, ripped, and travels the world. Everyone told him he will never be taken seriously in dating because of his social media, but he found someone who has the same philosophies and is now married with children.
You have to move on. You're both right and you're both wrong. If the belief is so important that you're not willing to change it, then don't expect her to. You will find someone with values and beliefs that are in line with yours where it matters and then it will be easier.
When I was still dating if a guy went that direction with stuff it was a hard no for me. I just didn't find myself interested after I saw that side of them.
There are two medications someone can take within 24 hours to prevent HIV transmission to him. He would take this for about a month, but he would need to start like asap. It won’t work after 24 hours. I would be honest with him because this could potentially change his life completely. As for your friendship with your best friend, I wouldn’t be able to on-line guilt free knowing this information, and if it was a good friendship, she will eventually understand why you would intervene.
Anyone in r/polyamory or r/nonmonogamy would tell you that if you don’t want to sleep with other people and you don’t want your partner to then you simply say that. If he isn’t okay with monogamy and you aren’t okay with anything but monogamy then you simply aren’t compatible and need to part ways. I understand that’s sad and it can feel like so much time wasted but this is one of those lifestyle disagreements that either one of you truly concedes and is okay with it or it will destroy you eventually.
Good God OP this is a nightmare scenario. You’re not being dramatic at all, you have every right to be upset and you should really talk to your family about this.
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My girlfriend & I have been dating for the past 3 years. We are deeply in love and our relationship has been great thus far. I get along very well with her teenage kids as she had them very young. Today, she admitted to me that she no longer has the desire of having more kids. We’ve had this conversation multiple times before and she accepted of having another one and has been brought up quite often. She knows how important it is to me of having my own however, she’s had a change of heart these past few weeks. I have been wanting a child of my own for quite some time and would love to have one at this stage of life. My heart is crushed as we have a beautiful life together. Advice?
I I don’t have much advice, but don’t be embarrassed. It happens. Idk the specifics, but “moving to online with a partner and it not working out” is not super uncommon. This sucks, but you don’t also have to pile shame and embarrassment on there; its not warranted.
It's simply not nice to the guys to deliberately waste their time and attention. You're not in the wrong. It has nothing to do with trust, it's just rude.
I’ve told her that, but Ally’s a pathological liar. She’s lied her way out of a lot of trouble. Somehow she called out sick, went to a concert that night, got caught, and never got repercussions. And in the end it’s one person’s word against the other.
I completely agreed and it’s what I would do, but she doesn’t have the confidence anyone will believe her.
Yes, I’m glad I took that decision. That was just too much for me, adding to the pain of his loss. Now, I’ll just focus on trying to heal and get better. I’m sorry for your loss, hope you’re on a journey to heal as well.
What makes you think that by trying to contact him all will be forgiven and you will have the “extraordinary” firendship you had before you ruined it yourself?
I wouldn't want to hear from/about someone who wanted to sbotage my life under any circu stances or in any context.
By hiding the fact that you still have his co tact details from your SO you know you are doing something wrong, probably still have a lingering obssession in which case you need to go back to therapy. Please leave him alone.
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I’ve been in a relationship with this girl for over a year and we recently got engaged. For the second time this mysterious person tells her that I have a hidden child. I’m shocked that she even asked me if this is true, to make things worse she won’t tell me who this person is and what the details are. I explained to her that it is important that we don’t hide things like that from each other and trust each other. She says she doesn’t want to cause trouble, but I think that’s BS. I think it’s one of her relatives who is spreading rumors. Regardless I am having second thoughts, I don’t think I should marry a girl who doesn’t trust me with details like that. Please give me your opinion and advice . How should I react?
You two are fundamentally incompatible and need to look for other people to be with. I am 26, and have a pretty diverse group of friends. A lot of them feel comfortable posting revealing photos (both guys and girls), and a lot of them do not. Conflict only arises when one person dates someone that doesn't have the same philosophy on the physical and then they start looking at themselves as being “right” and the other person as being “wrong”. When in reality, no one is right or wrong, it's just really different philosophies that both work for people with different lifestyles.
You give the example of the athletics coach being concerned. But I have seen this transition again and again of college athlete, becoming social media influencer, then becoming personal trainer. My cousin has done this and I remember our family being really freaked out by the pictures because we are a very conservative Christian immigrant family, but now everyone celebrates him because he is successful, ripped, and travels the world. Everyone told him he will never be taken seriously in dating because of his social media, but he found someone who has the same philosophies and is now married with children.
You have to move on. You're both right and you're both wrong. If the belief is so important that you're not willing to change it, then don't expect her to. You will find someone with values and beliefs that are in line with yours where it matters and then it will be easier.
I walk away.
When I was still dating if a guy went that direction with stuff it was a hard no for me. I just didn't find myself interested after I saw that side of them.
There are two medications someone can take within 24 hours to prevent HIV transmission to him. He would take this for about a month, but he would need to start like asap. It won’t work after 24 hours. I would be honest with him because this could potentially change his life completely. As for your friendship with your best friend, I wouldn’t be able to on-line guilt free knowing this information, and if it was a good friendship, she will eventually understand why you would intervene.
Came here to say exactly this.
Let’s call it what it is: predatory
If you didn’t mind it happening why did you accuse her of molesting you.
Think about it. You're 18 now. What do you think of 15 year old boys? Would you date one?
So now, try and imagine when you will be 22. How do you think you will look at 15 year old boys then?
From your perspective right now, dating a 24yr old as 18 isn't weird.
But from his perspective before, even just hanging out with a 15 yr old as 22 was weird af.
Thank you for the kind advice.
Do you actually enjoy being friends with these people or are you telling yourself that you're supposed to have friendships to be a good person?
Anyone in r/polyamory or r/nonmonogamy would tell you that if you don’t want to sleep with other people and you don’t want your partner to then you simply say that. If he isn’t okay with monogamy and you aren’t okay with anything but monogamy then you simply aren’t compatible and need to part ways. I understand that’s sad and it can feel like so much time wasted but this is one of those lifestyle disagreements that either one of you truly concedes and is okay with it or it will destroy you eventually.
Good God OP this is a nightmare scenario. You’re not being dramatic at all, you have every right to be upset and you should really talk to your family about this.
You did agree to it. You can also disagree to it by divorcing her. She's acting like a child.
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My girlfriend & I have been dating for the past 3 years. We are deeply in love and our relationship has been great thus far. I get along very well with her teenage kids as she had them very young. Today, she admitted to me that she no longer has the desire of having more kids. We’ve had this conversation multiple times before and she accepted of having another one and has been brought up quite often. She knows how important it is to me of having my own however, she’s had a change of heart these past few weeks. I have been wanting a child of my own for quite some time and would love to have one at this stage of life. My heart is crushed as we have a beautiful life together. Advice?
He doesn’t love you. He only cares about what other men think about him when they see you together. Dump him.
I I don’t have much advice, but don’t be embarrassed. It happens. Idk the specifics, but “moving to online with a partner and it not working out” is not super uncommon. This sucks, but you don’t also have to pile shame and embarrassment on there; its not warranted.
Easier said than done when more than 1/2 the time I want to off myself
This fucking troll again.
Get out right now
It's simply not nice to the guys to deliberately waste their time and attention. You're not in the wrong. It has nothing to do with trust, it's just rude.
I’ve told her that, but Ally’s a pathological liar. She’s lied her way out of a lot of trouble. Somehow she called out sick, went to a concert that night, got caught, and never got repercussions. And in the end it’s one person’s word against the other.
I completely agreed and it’s what I would do, but she doesn’t have the confidence anyone will believe her.
Yes, I’m glad I took that decision. That was just too much for me, adding to the pain of his loss. Now, I’ll just focus on trying to heal and get better. I’m sorry for your loss, hope you’re on a journey to heal as well.
What makes you think that by trying to contact him all will be forgiven and you will have the “extraordinary” firendship you had before you ruined it yourself?
I wouldn't want to hear from/about someone who wanted to sbotage my life under any circu stances or in any context.
By hiding the fact that you still have his co tact details from your SO you know you are doing something wrong, probably still have a lingering obssession in which case you need to go back to therapy. Please leave him alone.
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I’ve been in a relationship with this girl for over a year and we recently got engaged. For the second time this mysterious person tells her that I have a hidden child. I’m shocked that she even asked me if this is true, to make things worse she won’t tell me who this person is and what the details are. I explained to her that it is important that we don’t hide things like that from each other and trust each other. She says she doesn’t want to cause trouble, but I think that’s BS. I think it’s one of her relatives who is spreading rumors. Regardless I am having second thoughts, I don’t think I should marry a girl who doesn’t trust me with details like that. Please give me your opinion and advice . How should I react?
Ya, break up with him. If he wants to fight over a parking spot he is a child