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I think you need to do everything you can to make sure you’re right, and it wasn’t just you being sleepy, etc. But it sounds like you’re pretty certain. I do think it needs to be addressed. This sort of stonewalling or lying to avoid confrontation is not as bad as the malicious sort, but it can still lead to huge problems: partners hiding credit card debt, job issues, etc… which ultimately leaves them feeling lonely, anxious and afraid they wouldn’t be loved if their partners knew the truth.
The two times I’ve been in relationships with someone who hid things like this, the person had a history of abuse in their family: it doesn’t have to be severe abuse: even a verbally angry parent is enough to give people an instinct to hide or shut down in the face of an accusation. In both cases, I had to approach it with a lot of patience and empathy, and not take it personally: they rationally knew that I’m not someone who reacts with anger or coldness, but if you’ve gone through a time in your life where you had to protect yourself, the instinct to avoid confrontation is nude to fight.
If you’re absolutely sure she had it, I would have a conversation that doesn’t have a direct ultimatum or anything, but basically is along the lines of:
“before we move forward with the relationship, which is something I absolutely want to do, we need to talk about this: we’re both going to make mistakes sometimes, and I think we love each other enough to handle those moments, but I don’t know how we’ll make it work if we can’t be honest about those moments. Are there reasons you feel you can’t be honest with me?” And if she IS willing to be more honest, it’ll be a good chance to demonstrate that you’re willing to listen and work with her.
That’s assuming that you don’t see any reason for her not to own it: you don’t sound like someone with a big temper, but if you do have a history of losing your temper or anything that might be triggering for her, you’ll have to simultaneously work through that, and that can be difficult without a therapist or counselor. (Because losing your temper with someone who avoids confrontation often retraumatizes them, and the they really will shut down and not be able to assess their own behavior: their whole anxious system will be dealing with worrying about being hurt)
We all bring baggage to our relationships, and hopefully, this experience will ultimately be one that strengthens yours by giving you both a chance to work through it. And assuming you propose, there’s nothing wrong with some premarital counseling to help smooth some of the inevitable road bumps.
“Whoring it out” lol what are you orthodox… She keeps her options open, you're only dating you're not her boyfriend
She's too good for you, clearly.
You gotta tell us what it is or this makes no sense.
One day when you have been married for years and have kids together this skeleton will appear out of nowhere and destroy everything. Both of you need to own up to your past mistakes before you get married. You can’t start a union that serious on a lie.
were in couples therapy and also got my own therapist i've had for a while. She is also in therapy which she has just started
First of all, Benadryl on occasion for sleep is okay….nightly can really start messing with you, even on a hormonal level. Yes, it is prescribed to animals, but that doesn’t mean they should just take it whenever.
It’s sounds like she’s developing some habit forming problems or potentially addiction. Please be careful here.
This is the most levelheaded analysis I’ve seen on Reddit of this situation.
because I'm going home at 6:30 and we ate 30 min to an hour later so I unfortunately don't have 2 hours to cook like she does.
Sure, but so you start learning to cook during holidays, and on the weekends….and you can start cooking one meal every week. There are plenty of decent, medium meals which are ready within an hour.
I know how to follow a recipe for simple thing, but even with a recipe, I don't manage to do very difficult things
Then start learning it….srsly, you never know what the future brings and cooking is an essential skill. If you can't manage yourself, take some cooking classes.
Don't make excuses, take actions.
Exactly my thoughts. OP wants her boyfriend to sit at home and worry about her safety while she's the one jeopardising her own safety.
Even when she told him about getting a lift with this strange guy, his reaction was enough indication for her to know that he wasn't comfortable with that, yet she ignored that and here we are….
I dont think that there is a problem that has an immediate solution.
Its just that we are both tired psychologically from university and that has an impact on our behaviour
We will just talk it through
Yes. It’s a deal breaker for the reasons you mentioned
OK… so let's break this down into two options.
Are you still in love? If the answer is yes then that complicates things a little. She clearly has some issues that need resolving and I would definitely recommend postponing the wedding until the drinking etc etc is dealt with. You're not cruel for doing that and it's nobody else's business. If the choice is mutual then you're doing it for both of you. She can seek therapy or rehabilitation, and then when her condition has improved and you two feel stronger as a couple you can talk about marriage again.
Now here's the big one. Based on your last sentence, you don't really love her anymore. If that's the case then you really need to cancel the wedding and be straight up honest with her about it. Honestly, next week is very last minute and there's going to be lot of pain from her, judgement from family (yours and hers) and logistics and maybe money involved for the cancellation. But honestly, it's more cruel to stay with someone you don't love and get married and give them that false hope when it just isn't there for you anymore. You'd be doing both of you a favour in the long term. Horrible decision to make though, mate! Good luck
Australia, Melbourne
Expecting gifts kinda sucks all the joy out of gift giving
He is the one who has an issue which what I did but that doesn’t mean he isn’t valid for feeling that way. I know I shouldn’t have and I’m asking for advice on how to fix. Not judgement
Doesn't sound like you have the expectation of exclusivity. So let it be rather than waste a promising relationship. If he comes back to you great, he likes you better. If not that's unfortunate but gives you an opportunity to find a better match.
You clearly don’t like her stop wasting her time. You can’t seriously be that bored or desperate.
Be supportive of their work relationship, and since they have a lot of common interests, mention that you would like to meet the guy too.
in most states, rape and sexual assault can mean two different things. sexual assault can range from slapping a womans ass without consent, kissing a woman without consent, etc. any sexual act without consent is sexual assault. that’s why you can get charged for both sexual assault and rape (on different occasions of course. if someone sexually assaults a woman and rapes her too, they will only be charged for rape)