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  1. Take your time with foreplay, extreme arousal helps. Use toys or fingers to get used to pentation. Ask your partner to look into female edging. If he knows what he is doing with a vagina he will get you to a state where you will be begging to be filled.

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  3. OP made it clear he's been checked out, uncaring, and uncommunicative for many years, to the point where she's now checked out. There's likely nothing to salvage there and the best option would be for them to both move on with their lives.

    Even if he gets treatment, it's extremely unlikely that OP is going to be able to really love or trust him again.

  4. Rushing into a very serious decision because you “always thought” it would happen that way is a terrible, terrible idea. There is a lot more to marriage than just signing the papers to fulfil a dream you had when you were 13 or something. I think its important to be with someone who shares the same goals and values as you (along with other things, obviously), and it sounds like thats what you have. Do you want to leave and marry someone just because they're willing to do it within the next 6 months? Do you want to marry someone who's not right for you because it fits your timeline? Sounds like a recipe for resentment and divorce, and I imagine thats not what you're looking for.

  5. I read that he just moved in and you have not had a real date yet and have decided I don't need to read the rest. This is bad-choice-central. You should probably date someone in real life before sharing a place with them, especially when a child is involved.

  6. I am starting to think the same ?. I am so attached to him that I cannot see it and blocking seems so cruel ? but it will have to be done ?

  7. And what about Christian’s that aren’t married? And Christianity have different groups, such as Catholics and Protestant’s. Some require you to be completely celibate that includes no maturation unless you fit a standard or are a priest.

  8. You deserve better. Ok, I'm old…I remember being your age, and I'm going to share a few things that I wish I knew then. Think about them and see if anything fits.

    It's not a good relationship if the relationship isn't good. And that means good for both people, the majority of the time. Yeah, rough times and bad feelings can happen in the best relationship, but if the bad days are taking over that's important. Basically, if he's an AH, but he's nice “sometimes”, that relationship is like a chocolate cake with a ton of green peppers baked in. I felt so I secure because of the bad things that I couldn't even enjoy the good ones (because the bad was just lurking…). That's not a good relationship.

    Being by myself was better than being in a bad relationship. That one's very hot, but it's true. I've come to realize that being lonely without a relationship hurts a lot less than being lonely in a relationship.

    When someone shows you who they really are, believe them. They may say all the right things (like “I love you”) but watch their behavior. On the whole, are they acting with love and care, or are they acting like an AH? Believe your eyes, and your gut – they are more honest that your ears or your heart.

    You can't ever change anyone else. You can only change yourself. You can change how you react to them. You can change how much you rely on them. You can even change how you feel about them. But you can never change how they choose to behave.

    And here's the oldster in me talking…you can and will find other people. You are young, and you have all your life to meet all sorts of people. You can meet someone who respects you. You can meet someone who loves you. You can meet someone who can complete your life in ways you can't even imagine right now! You are going to learn and grow and change, and what you want in a relationship is going to grow and change with you!

    I can't tell you what to do, but I can tell you that every time I held on to someone who treated me badly, the only one who was hurt was myself. You don't deserve to be hurt.

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